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Dave Chapman
Oct 24, 20232 min read
The Moment I Knew I Was Done
"If you were a kid, would you look up to you?" At that moment, I started crying in a room full of grown men I'd known for a day and a...
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Dave Chapman
Oct 17, 20235 min read
Abstinence, Harm Reduction, and the Sober Curious
Let me start this by saying that when it comes to alcohol, I practice, and MUST practice, 100% abstinence. If you've read the blog post,...
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Dave Chapman
Oct 5, 20234 min read
Self-Care
As you would imagine, most of the training to become a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach (CARC) is about how to help our clients, how to...
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Dave Chapman
Sep 26, 20237 min read
Heroes
There are a lot of things about my time after I'd crossed the line from heavy drinker to person with Substance Use Disorder, but was...
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Dave Chapman
Sep 18, 20233 min read
I'm Back!
Yeah, I know. The pic! Comparing myself to the Terminator, even the version when Arnold was getting a little long in the tooth for...
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Dave Chapman
Dec 15, 20216 min read
Holidays (The Bermuda Triangle)
For most of us, the holiday season is a time for celebration. We gather with family and friends. We attend big holiday parties thrown by...
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Dave Chapman
Dec 1, 20215 min read
Safety
Today there was a HUGE announcement regarding recovery in this country. New York City's Mayor, Bill de Blasio, announced that NYC has...
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Dave Chapman
Nov 25, 20213 min read
Gratitude
"A grateful alcoholic will never drink again." -- Unattributed If you spend time around 12-step programs, you will inevitably hear the...
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Dave Chapman
Nov 8, 20213 min read
Fun!
So, this is my first post in quite a while. Sorry for the break, but the title says it all . . . I finished my summer (and early fall, I...
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Dave Chapman
Jun 23, 20214 min read
Arrogance (Pride and Ego, Part 2)
As I was writing my last post, Confidence, I realized it was essential to make clear the difference between confidence and arrogance. I...
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Dave Chapman
May 31, 20213 min read
Confidence
In my "past life," I was a successful businessman -- a solid, strategic, advertising executive. I never shied away from a challenge, and...
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Dave Chapman
May 18, 20213 min read
Stigma
The other night my wife and I were at an event. I was in a conversation with a friend. She showed me her nearly empty glass and said,...
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Dave Chapman
May 12, 20213 min read
Wise Words From A Knight
I will on occasion use this space to share writing by others that I find worth sharing. This post is one of those. Sir Anthony Hopkins...
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Dave Chapman
May 5, 20212 min read
Pride and Ego
I have said many times that my two biggest issues are not admitting my flaws and not asking for help. Of course, those are just...
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Dave Chapman
Apr 30, 20212 min read
Playing The Tape Forward
Regardless of your path to recovery, "playing the tape forward" can be a very effective tool in managing against cravings (urges) or even...
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